Our situation is somewhat different because we're in the USA, although I'm English. My husband was sectioned here in Massachusetts in December 2016 after assaulting me in a public place. It took six months, two different hospitals and three different care homes but he is now settled and well cared for in a Skilled Nursing Facility which specialises in difficult behaviours. He was EXTREMELY aggressive during these first months of 2017, and I made the mistake of placing him in pretty places with pot plants and pianos which claimed to deal with 'challenging behaviour'. They did not. Now he is in a converted hospital, where the paint is peeling off the walls and the care is loving and extraordinary. It literally took him 48 hours to calm down there, and I think it was because of the high levels and quality of staffing. I visit three times a week, but feel quite okay about leaving him for up to three weeks when I go and take care of business back in France, where we used to live. What I'm saying is, there will be a place for your husband somewhere, and even if it's a way away, as long as it's the right place, that's what matters. You may have to make changes in your own way of life, for sure, but honestly that's not as hard as trying to do the impossible at home with a man who has a degenerative neurological condition and needs specialised care.