My husband has had a battery of psychological tests, which show he has memory problems and concentration problems but not dementia. He will not accept he has a significant problem and gets horribly bad tempered about it. The memory service do not believe he has a significant problem. His GP does, though. I actually agree that it is not dementia, but he does have very serious issues. He does everything so slowly it drives me mad. He forgets pretty much everything. He used to be immaculately clean and tidy but now looks like a rough sleeper. He will not go out alone except to walk the dog. Today I was so angry I did not cook him a proper meal as he just sat watching television having forgotten what he had agreed to do. Yesterday I had to drag him to see a GP because it was obvious he had a UTI because of the revolting smell. He cannot have a telephone conversation, he rarely showers and cannot even attempt to get in the bath. He hates coming to bed but falls asleep the moment his head hits the pillow. Anyone who knows him is horrified at the change in him. Sorry, I need to rant. I have been lying awake for hours, having woken up to get him to bed. I used to go away regularly but am afraid to leave him as he eats nothing but cheese sandwiches left to his own devices. I don’t know what to do next. I have spoken to the psychologist and explained that some of the tests results were wrong (yes, they were!) and she was ok about this but in the meantime I have a situation I cannot cope with. I am so exhausted most of the time.