My mum has been diagnosed with early stages of dementia symptons include poor memory, repetitiveness, forgetfullness and now incontinence problems which seem to be getting worse. Mum still lives at home with my dad and has regular 'accidents'. I have purchased disposable tenor pants for her but she is extremely stubborn and refuses to even try them. My dad reminds her regularly to use the toilet but she just tells him not to treat her like a child! I speak to her with respect and understanding and and try to get her to try the pants. She says she will do. But my dad advises me that come the next day when he reminds her about the pants she simply shouts at him and says they are for old people! Please can anyone advise me on how I can get her to just try the disposable pants when my dad asks her to. Thank you.