Hi all,
Long story short, my mum was admitted to hospital at the beginning of July as she was very agitated and confused. Doc's suspect she has dementia, but the official diagnosis was delirium superimposed on dementia.
They sent her home a few weeks ago with a failed CHC assessment and an increased care package of one extra half an hour call in the evening for bedtime.
She has wandered out of the house at 4am and started knocking on the neighbours door!
A few days later she was seen by neighbours wandering outside the house. One of them was so concerned she said she was going to call the police. Luckily I returned from work just in time.
I decided to stop attending work as I didn't want a repeat of these incidents. I get home at 8:45pm. She is still very restless and agitated around the house and doesn't sleep much!
I haven't reported this to Social Services, as I am very worried that they might consider putting her in a care home. However, I have been told by the supervisor of the care aid agency that supplies the carers that this is extremely unlikely. We are also waiting for a hospital bed to be installed at home so my mum can't wander as much and also doesn't fall. (she falls out of bed almost everyday)
What should I do? Should I report this to Social Services? I really want to get back to work and get some sanity back in my life as I cannot cope anymore.
Please give me some advice as I am really tempted to just call them but worried about the consequences.
Long story short, my mum was admitted to hospital at the beginning of July as she was very agitated and confused. Doc's suspect she has dementia, but the official diagnosis was delirium superimposed on dementia.
They sent her home a few weeks ago with a failed CHC assessment and an increased care package of one extra half an hour call in the evening for bedtime.
She has wandered out of the house at 4am and started knocking on the neighbours door!
A few days later she was seen by neighbours wandering outside the house. One of them was so concerned she said she was going to call the police. Luckily I returned from work just in time.
I decided to stop attending work as I didn't want a repeat of these incidents. I get home at 8:45pm. She is still very restless and agitated around the house and doesn't sleep much!
I haven't reported this to Social Services, as I am very worried that they might consider putting her in a care home. However, I have been told by the supervisor of the care aid agency that supplies the carers that this is extremely unlikely. We are also waiting for a hospital bed to be installed at home so my mum can't wander as much and also doesn't fall. (she falls out of bed almost everyday)
What should I do? Should I report this to Social Services? I really want to get back to work and get some sanity back in my life as I cannot cope anymore.
Please give me some advice as I am really tempted to just call them but worried about the consequences.