My mum had Alzheimer's and was totally uncontrollable and violent and went through a period of being sectioned and ended up spending over 3 yrs in a very expensive care home with 1 staff to 4 patients. We stupidly thought she would qualify for CHC as her needs were so bad, but we were put off when she was initially turned down for CHC, by her care home manager who told us the health authority we are in are the worst in our area to agree CHC and that no one in her care home under that authority had funding. There were lots of people worse than my mum in that care home so it made us accept their judgement and not expect it. We attended all the meetings and reviews and put up a good case but never really questioned their rulings. My mum's condition suddenly deteriorated and the last 8 months of my Mum's life she could do nothing except breath, she had to be hand fed, carried, lifted, dressed, everything she made no attempt to lift anything or weight bear with her legs and spent most of that time in bed or in a chair. At that point we thought they must pay now and tried to get them to visit to review her situation . It took them 9 months to respond to our many requests to review her condition and by then she was dead so they had to do a retrospective review. But during the time we were waiting for them and seeing how bad she was it seemed ridiculous that they wouldn't fund her so it made me investigate funding a bit more and I saw an advert for a seminar at a local solicitors about not paying care home fees so I went and discovered that we probably did have a good case against the local authority, we instructed a no win no fee solicitor to fight on our behalf. It was a hugely slow process and has taken lots of form filling and copies of documents and solicitor visits but after 4 years today I received notification they have agreed that she was eligible for full CHC Funding. It will probably take us another 4 years to get the money that is owed, we have yet more forms to fill out etc but we have finally won!
My message to you all out there in a similar position who have had CHC funding turned down, don't ever give up and keep fighting and if you need to don't be frightened of instructing a solicitor to help. Whilst it all came far too late to help my mum, I know she would have hated the fact that all her savings over £140,000 was spent on care home fees.