I can feel your calmness in your post you most certainly have reached that invisible point where you must put yourself first and I hope all goes well for you both .We all know it's coming but when and will we know when it's time is not so easy .
I'm not yet in that situation but am feeling myself step back away from what I had to what has to be and it hurts ,so love and hugs to you .Take care.xx
I'm not yet in that situation but am feeling myself step back away from what I had to what has to be and it hurts ,so love and hugs to you .Take care.xx