I had no idea DOLS meant certain rules had to be followed after the affected person dies. Mum is still at home with me and the only time it has ever been discussed in relation to her when she was on a respite stay and they were going to apply for one (but never did).
It seems there have been varying experiences, but if mum ever goes into a home, I will certainly check exactly what it would mean in her case (whether I'd have any say in the matter I don't know - probably not). I'm pleased this thread has highlighted these issues. If it meant that mum was subject to some kind of 'police intervention' after her death, then to me that would just be the final insult to her, and me, having experienced this whole dementia nightmare. What a very bizarre process.