Hello. I am new on here. My husband is 58 and was diagnosed with frontotemporal dementia two years ago. Looking back, he's probably had it for around four years. He is steadily declining. Last week I made the shock discovery of finding badly soiled underpants and a few days later he'd wet himself. I'm assuming this means he's entering a new 'stage', though I know sometimes the stages don't mean much and that everyone's dementia is unique to them. I cannot get him to do anything. He thinks there's nothing wrong with him, won't wash/bath, thinks he can walk into any job, is obsessed with the TV, and is just gradually withdrawing from daily life. I'm assuming this is normal. Have looked at lots of posts on TP and this seems totally normal for FTD sufferers. I feel like I am going mad too! I am 52.