Hello,
It's been a year since I first came to this site in a state of desperation; my father had been rushed to hospital and at this point the extent of my mother's dementia was plain to see, as previously my father had tried his best to keep it from everyone else. He died in February 2016. My mum went into respite care and has stayed in the Care Home every since. She has moderate + Alzheimers and was assessed as having no capacity to make decisions. Physically, she is very able and gets around on her stick and rarely sits down for more than a few minutes. She is still able to climb the stairs at the Care Home, eats well and is still able to take herself off to the toilet when she needs to, although she does sometimes get up in the night and wee on her bedroom floor, but not all the time. She was getting up in the morning and having a wash in her room when she first went into the Home, but I gather this isn't happening so much now and she's also taken to sleeping in her clothes and staying up all night and sleeping in the day.She is very difficult when the carers try and help. Cognitively, it is really quite bad; in the last year she has forgotten who I am (or any of my siblings), she has to ask where the toilet is and tells me her mother visits her regularly (she died more than 40 years ago), her sentences are usually a jumble of words. So basically, physically she's not bad at all, but cognitively she is. I would like to ask if anyone could tell me if, as the cognitive side declines, the physical side of things will decline also as a direct result of this? I know everyone is different and this might sound like a daft question, but I guess I just want to feel prepared for any eventuality as she seems so capable, physically wise, at the moment. I've had too many bad surprises during the last year so don't want any more! She is 88. I would really appreciate hearing any similar experiences.
Thank you
It's been a year since I first came to this site in a state of desperation; my father had been rushed to hospital and at this point the extent of my mother's dementia was plain to see, as previously my father had tried his best to keep it from everyone else. He died in February 2016. My mum went into respite care and has stayed in the Care Home every since. She has moderate + Alzheimers and was assessed as having no capacity to make decisions. Physically, she is very able and gets around on her stick and rarely sits down for more than a few minutes. She is still able to climb the stairs at the Care Home, eats well and is still able to take herself off to the toilet when she needs to, although she does sometimes get up in the night and wee on her bedroom floor, but not all the time. She was getting up in the morning and having a wash in her room when she first went into the Home, but I gather this isn't happening so much now and she's also taken to sleeping in her clothes and staying up all night and sleeping in the day.She is very difficult when the carers try and help. Cognitively, it is really quite bad; in the last year she has forgotten who I am (or any of my siblings), she has to ask where the toilet is and tells me her mother visits her regularly (she died more than 40 years ago), her sentences are usually a jumble of words. So basically, physically she's not bad at all, but cognitively she is. I would like to ask if anyone could tell me if, as the cognitive side declines, the physical side of things will decline also as a direct result of this? I know everyone is different and this might sound like a daft question, but I guess I just want to feel prepared for any eventuality as she seems so capable, physically wise, at the moment. I've had too many bad surprises during the last year so don't want any more! She is 88. I would really appreciate hearing any similar experiences.
Thank you