I posted before about my husbands POA being instigated by his son and daughter against his wishes. I took a step back after people on forum saying I had nothing to worry about. I let them do as they wished and when they turned up saying they just wanted to check over the bank statements my husband told them outright that he didn't need them to do that. He does not communicate easily but when needed he can tell you exactly what he wants. He told them that he didn't need them to check his accounts but at the same time I said I have nothing to hide and they can check whatever they want to.
Today on taking my husband to the chiropodist for the first time to get his toe nails clipped due to major problems with ingrowing toenails, I was finding it difficult to do it due to the pain and I was worried I was causing more problems with the way I was doing it. On trying to pay with a bank card in my name on his account with full signed authority with the bank and my husband it was declined. On asking at the bank his son and daughter have taken control of his bank and the bank have taken the card off me. No one has told him what is happening and now we have no cash and no bank card to do any shopping. I had to tell him that this has happened and my mother has given me cash to keep us going but how can a POA let them to deprive us of any funds without letting us know.
I now have more trauma as my husband is so stressed about this he is following me around the house and is extremely stressed about this. We have coped through thick and thin and I have been through so much trying to keep him stable and now both him and I feel like giving up.
I phoned the solicitor but at 4.30 on a Friday there was no one there and now I don't have any means to pay them. I don't work as I am caring 24/7 for my husband and so have little savings to live on.
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Today on taking my husband to the chiropodist for the first time to get his toe nails clipped due to major problems with ingrowing toenails, I was finding it difficult to do it due to the pain and I was worried I was causing more problems with the way I was doing it. On trying to pay with a bank card in my name on his account with full signed authority with the bank and my husband it was declined. On asking at the bank his son and daughter have taken control of his bank and the bank have taken the card off me. No one has told him what is happening and now we have no cash and no bank card to do any shopping. I had to tell him that this has happened and my mother has given me cash to keep us going but how can a POA let them to deprive us of any funds without letting us know.
I now have more trauma as my husband is so stressed about this he is following me around the house and is extremely stressed about this. We have coped through thick and thin and I have been through so much trying to keep him stable and now both him and I feel like giving up.
I phoned the solicitor but at 4.30 on a Friday there was no one there and now I don't have any means to pay them. I don't work as I am caring 24/7 for my husband and so have little savings to live on.
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