i advice please!!
MIL lives with us we were asessesd for respite in Oct and MIL as carers in and eligible for extra care, lives with us since Nov 2014 in different L.Ato her old one of 42yearsplus, financial assessment is L.A funded, so Ss here said no CH but extra carewiating list in old L.A....MiL accepted on list....Mixed dementia...mild to moderate slowly worsening taken of donezipil 5mg due to change in behaviour , increase in continence accidents...
Basically acting oddly at a finally party on Sat 3 people to get her out of loo checked over okay anywayd went to SIL for Easter that eve in church collapsed in hospital with pneumonia since then SIL lives 2 hours away from us, we were visting tomorrow as OH was to do an assessment etc. anyhow BIL calls physio siad MiL can getout of a chair and walk woth stick to loo, have no idea if pneumonia resolvd, so take her home
We as a quartet agreed yesterday that MIL need CH and we as a couple have said since last Oct that we were unable to cope anyhow , SIL has in our opinion been bullied into agreeing to take MIL back to her house for 4weeks with some form of care package ....and as physio said to OH you've got 4weeks to sort something else out..... our SW does absolutely nothing , extra care can't conjure up beds... concerned SS will still say no to CH, have no idea how MIL is apart from being able to get up of a chair
SIL has not consulted us before agreeing to take
MIL out tomorrow which we feel will lead us back to square one....SIL does not listen to what we have tried request respite, assessment etc. to no avail .... any ideas as to our next move...
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MIL lives with us we were asessesd for respite in Oct and MIL as carers in and eligible for extra care, lives with us since Nov 2014 in different L.Ato her old one of 42yearsplus, financial assessment is L.A funded, so Ss here said no CH but extra carewiating list in old L.A....MiL accepted on list....Mixed dementia...mild to moderate slowly worsening taken of donezipil 5mg due to change in behaviour , increase in continence accidents...
Basically acting oddly at a finally party on Sat 3 people to get her out of loo checked over okay anywayd went to SIL for Easter that eve in church collapsed in hospital with pneumonia since then SIL lives 2 hours away from us, we were visting tomorrow as OH was to do an assessment etc. anyhow BIL calls physio siad MiL can getout of a chair and walk woth stick to loo, have no idea if pneumonia resolvd, so take her home
We as a quartet agreed yesterday that MIL need CH and we as a couple have said since last Oct that we were unable to cope anyhow , SIL has in our opinion been bullied into agreeing to take MIL back to her house for 4weeks with some form of care package ....and as physio said to OH you've got 4weeks to sort something else out..... our SW does absolutely nothing , extra care can't conjure up beds... concerned SS will still say no to CH, have no idea how MIL is apart from being able to get up of a chair
SIL has not consulted us before agreeing to take
MIL out tomorrow which we feel will lead us back to square one....SIL does not listen to what we have tried request respite, assessment etc. to no avail .... any ideas as to our next move...
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