When my husband goes into a care home and when his fees are taken over by local authority they will take all his income to help with fees leaving me to take over all the running costs of the family home. Added to that they ask me to pay the top up between the care home fee and the amount they will pay,, which is in the region of £400 a month. Which is almost all my state pension. Can anyone explain how I am supposed to do this ...........?