Hello lovely people, this is my first post. Your comments have helped me feel less isolated already, but I don't know how to handle this one. OH has alz & vas dem diagnosed 5 yrs but had it at least 10. Aged 82. Recently been for 2 weeks respite for first time, previously only a weekend. Happy there no problems. Returned home and thinks he has just moved in and we are not married yet (26 years!). Wants to have sex again after 18 years - his choice at the time to stop. Separate rooms 15 years but complains every night he " has been consigned to the back room" and won't go to bed. Have given reassuring hugs but not helping at night. Any ideas or experiences welcome please.