Well since our traumatic week last week things are generally alot calmer. O/H still wandering off in the mornings as long as he has coat its ok. However he does not like his coat and its the only one we can discreetly hide the iphone so we can track him. He can feel it in the pocket but does notknow what it is. Has an appointment at the clinic this morning and has decided to wander off with his coat, what to do should I attend the appointment without him son out looking for him hopefully will find him in the next half hour, what a stressful morning. Thought I would just update whilst I wait for there return.....Don't know what is going to happen when I have to return to work as he plays up in the mornings and is normally ok by 1400 (so I think then something else triggers new behaviour) This is a learning curve every minute of the day no 2 days are the same. My feelings go out everyone who does not have anyone to lean on I am fortunate to have a very supportive family to whom I will always be there for when they need me just like they have been for me..........