Would you believe that I have just spent 5 hours doing nothing but changing my dad's incontinence pants and cleaning floors also cleaning him I cannot make dad understand that it is better to keep his pants up and mess them rather than soil the floor but tonight he has been doing it in his pants before reaching the toilet but when he pulls his pants down it has either been falling out or he has been ejecting it I think that he is having a flare up of his diverticular disease...finally got him to bed after taking his donepezil but now he's trotting round up there like a spring chicken I am tired out and know that it's going to be another night without any sleep... So just poured myself a glass of wine.. Moan over going to enjoy my ros' e. xxx sorry if the post is a little disjointed but that's how I am feeling xx