Dear TP Members
This is the first time I've posted - but I have been taking comfort from your discussions for a couple of years now. My Mum is 76 and has been in a Dementia home for 12 months. Just before Christmas she had a bad fall at the home and banged her head. She was taken to hospital for tests but there were no broken bones. The hospital was a bad experience - short staffed and no idea of how to deal with mum's dementia. Fortunately we managed to get her back to the security of the home within a few days but she was very ill and we thought we might lose her. Due to her deterioration at the time we didn't realise she had other complications - a suspected case of Temporal Arteritis - or inflamation of the temporal arteries. This condition is very serious and if left untreated causes blindness. Unfortunately because my mum has poor communication skills, we had no idea at the beginning and only a passing comment by the Doctor about the possiblity of this condition sent us to the internet to find out more. By the time we'd googled it and gone back to the doctor insisting on a course of Prednisone (the only cure) it was too late. Now mum is a shadow of her former self - very frightened of being moved in the slightest way, finds walking impossible , has developed a pessure sore from all the laying down and is on soft food because they took her false teeth out after the fall and we can't get them back in. I am gutted as her quality of life is so poor now. I just wanted to know if anyone else has experienced Arteritis or if you have a loved one with Dementia and Blindness can you recommend things we can do to reassure her or give her back some quality of life. I feel so pretective of her and try to touch her gently, talk to her and hold her hand as much as possible to let her I am there. Any other suggestions would be great appreciated.
Warm regards
Lyn
This is the first time I've posted - but I have been taking comfort from your discussions for a couple of years now. My Mum is 76 and has been in a Dementia home for 12 months. Just before Christmas she had a bad fall at the home and banged her head. She was taken to hospital for tests but there were no broken bones. The hospital was a bad experience - short staffed and no idea of how to deal with mum's dementia. Fortunately we managed to get her back to the security of the home within a few days but she was very ill and we thought we might lose her. Due to her deterioration at the time we didn't realise she had other complications - a suspected case of Temporal Arteritis - or inflamation of the temporal arteries. This condition is very serious and if left untreated causes blindness. Unfortunately because my mum has poor communication skills, we had no idea at the beginning and only a passing comment by the Doctor about the possiblity of this condition sent us to the internet to find out more. By the time we'd googled it and gone back to the doctor insisting on a course of Prednisone (the only cure) it was too late. Now mum is a shadow of her former self - very frightened of being moved in the slightest way, finds walking impossible , has developed a pessure sore from all the laying down and is on soft food because they took her false teeth out after the fall and we can't get them back in. I am gutted as her quality of life is so poor now. I just wanted to know if anyone else has experienced Arteritis or if you have a loved one with Dementia and Blindness can you recommend things we can do to reassure her or give her back some quality of life. I feel so pretective of her and try to touch her gently, talk to her and hold her hand as much as possible to let her I am there. Any other suggestions would be great appreciated.
Warm regards
Lyn