Hello,
My grandfather has severe dementia. In the last 9 months the man I knew has gone. It's happened so fast it's left me reeling and not knowing what to do.
My grandmother is his carer and she wants it to stay that way for as long as possible, but she's 91 and I worry about her. I should explain they live 2 hours drive away in a small village. I'm the closest relative, so I'm trying to sort as much as I can for her.
I've got her to set up an alert card so if anything happens to her or him I get a call and I can go down there but I don't know about the legal stuff! At the moment all bills etc are being dealt with by my grandmother. I'm assuming as his wife she can continue doing that without Power of Attorney?? Is there anything I should be advising her on? Any legal stuff we've not taken into consideration?
Sorry if this sounds vague! I feel like I'm in a thick fog and I can't see what I need to do!
Thanks
Vicki
My grandfather has severe dementia. In the last 9 months the man I knew has gone. It's happened so fast it's left me reeling and not knowing what to do.
My grandmother is his carer and she wants it to stay that way for as long as possible, but she's 91 and I worry about her. I should explain they live 2 hours drive away in a small village. I'm the closest relative, so I'm trying to sort as much as I can for her.
I've got her to set up an alert card so if anything happens to her or him I get a call and I can go down there but I don't know about the legal stuff! At the moment all bills etc are being dealt with by my grandmother. I'm assuming as his wife she can continue doing that without Power of Attorney?? Is there anything I should be advising her on? Any legal stuff we've not taken into consideration?
Sorry if this sounds vague! I feel like I'm in a thick fog and I can't see what I need to do!
Thanks
Vicki