I read about not disagreeing with what dementia sufferers say and so forth, but what about this scenario?
Went out to a cafe today and OH got annoyed because I try to encourage less sugar consumption i.e. 3 spoons in coffee. He's not in need of calories either! Have decided I'm never mentioning it again.
Then, when we get home, he comes up with all the same old stuff about what I do or don't do, most of which is wrong and suggests we should separate. He'll go somewhere else, I could have my sister live here, which I can't as we're in a retirement village and it wouldn't be allowed. And on and on...
In the end I just stopped answering, he's forgotten it all now, but I still feel upset and depressed and don't know how to deal with it.
Went out to a cafe today and OH got annoyed because I try to encourage less sugar consumption i.e. 3 spoons in coffee. He's not in need of calories either! Have decided I'm never mentioning it again.
Then, when we get home, he comes up with all the same old stuff about what I do or don't do, most of which is wrong and suggests we should separate. He'll go somewhere else, I could have my sister live here, which I can't as we're in a retirement village and it wouldn't be allowed. And on and on...
In the end I just stopped answering, he's forgotten it all now, but I still feel upset and depressed and don't know how to deal with it.