Just had a distressing phone call from my OH who is in care because I havn't been able to go and see him because the Home is in "quarantine" for a week now.
I have been down there and handed things over at the door, the usual things I take in when I visit every other day.
He is very agitated and obviously cannot remember what I have sent in and says he hasn't seen me for a long time, and wanted to make sure "I am his Wife".
Obviously there is nothing I can do about it but I can never switch off from the unfairness of this illness, he is there under a DoLS and he is only just 69.
I have been down there and handed things over at the door, the usual things I take in when I visit every other day.
He is very agitated and obviously cannot remember what I have sent in and says he hasn't seen me for a long time, and wanted to make sure "I am his Wife".
Obviously there is nothing I can do about it but I can never switch off from the unfairness of this illness, he is there under a DoLS and he is only just 69.
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