Just looking for a support channel at the moment, dont like to moan as I know there are others out there a lot worse off but my dad was diagnosed with early alzheimers yesterday at the age of 56
Its not a bolt from the blue as we knew "something wasnt quite right" and have been going back and forth between doctors, brain scans and community nurses and memory tests for almost two years but it is unnerving with whats in front. He was prescribed Aricept and the consultant explained that it wont make us notice any change in his behaviour but it may slow it down and we could have a good few years of a quality life in front of us. He isnt too bad at the moment as he still works, drives etc, his short term memory is awful, we need to tell him the same thing over and over but he knows who we are and doesnt forget where he lives or anything like that yet!
He is adamant that he is going to keep working for as long as possible, his employer has already revoked his driving privileges and he has had his duties altered to suit but the thing that is upsetting him the most is losing his driving licence, where does he stand with the DVLA will he automatically lose it or can an assessment be carried out.
He is also very uncomfortable outwith his comfort zone, doesn't like being out of his own house or going to occasions or anywhere he isnt familiar with - is this normal?
Sorry if Im rambling so much going through my head and I am worried about my mum as well, we have already had so much to overcome as I lost my brother a few years ago in an accident and mum was diagnosed with breast cancer last year (shes fine now though - very lucky in that instance)
Its not a bolt from the blue as we knew "something wasnt quite right" and have been going back and forth between doctors, brain scans and community nurses and memory tests for almost two years but it is unnerving with whats in front. He was prescribed Aricept and the consultant explained that it wont make us notice any change in his behaviour but it may slow it down and we could have a good few years of a quality life in front of us. He isnt too bad at the moment as he still works, drives etc, his short term memory is awful, we need to tell him the same thing over and over but he knows who we are and doesnt forget where he lives or anything like that yet!
He is adamant that he is going to keep working for as long as possible, his employer has already revoked his driving privileges and he has had his duties altered to suit but the thing that is upsetting him the most is losing his driving licence, where does he stand with the DVLA will he automatically lose it or can an assessment be carried out.
He is also very uncomfortable outwith his comfort zone, doesn't like being out of his own house or going to occasions or anywhere he isnt familiar with - is this normal?
Sorry if Im rambling so much going through my head and I am worried about my mum as well, we have already had so much to overcome as I lost my brother a few years ago in an accident and mum was diagnosed with breast cancer last year (shes fine now though - very lucky in that instance)