Dad moved to a nursing home from a care home that we were very happy with yesterday. He was settled and happy there, always eager to say how much he liked it. We were very lucky that they were able to wait until he had a nursing home place rather than admitting him to hospital. Went to see him this evening on the way home from work ( as I always do) and he was very unsettled.. hasn't called me by my name for months but while I was there he shouted out to me ( by name) to help him and "get me out of this" - i know he is in the best place for him but feeling very helpless.. I know that there are so many of you going through this and don't want to moan- just wanted to say this somewhere as can't tell mum and my brother x