My fil was diagnosed with alzheimers in February this year but we all knew long before then as he has been deteriorating for months now.he was prescribed Aricept which he took for 9 weeks. We didn't notice any improvement in him but when he decided he wasn't going to take it anymore as it was giving him vivid dreams we certainly noticed a decline in his memory and compreheniveness quickly after he stopped them. He has type 2 diabetes and has been on diabetic medication for probably about 8 years. He was taken into hospital recently due to very low blood sugar 3.4 and to begin with they said they were reducing the dose as he was taking too much. However when we went to his flat to get rid of the old tablets we found over 8 full boxes of glutamine which meant that he hadn't been taking it. We told the hospital who were struggling to keep his bm stable but it was still reduced. He was sent home a week later with carers coming in 3 times a day to make sure he was taking all his tablets and keeping an eye on him. I spoke to the care team on Friday and they informed me that they were still in the early stages of rehab care and that nothing would be changing for several weeks. Hubby spoke to fill yesterday and he informed us that the care people were signing him off and that it had been decided that he should stop the diabetic tablets for a month to see how he gets on without them. He said he had a blood test at home and he was now borderline diabetic. I thought there was no such thing as borderline diabetes. He doesn't eat well. He has meals on wheels of a lunchtime and then he has been eating pies, pastries chocolate etc in the evening. We are beside ourselves with worry that he will end up in hospital again because of his sugar levels. Surely the care team wouldn't have just suddenly stopped his tablets and care without talking to us first. We can't make out if he is making all of this up or whether it is true. He says he needs no help from anyone but he is not only has AD but he is blind as well. Hubby as lpa for health and welfare but says he won't use it as we showed file a beautiful care home near us which he said he hated and he was never going anywhere like that, and it was beautiful, one of the best in the country. What on earth are we to do with him? I am so constantly stressed I dread picking up the phone when I see his number come up. He is so bloody minded, I don't know if that is the AD or partly him as well. He refuses to believe that he was ever diagnosed with ad or diabetes. His flat is dirty where he doesn't give any proper instructions to the cleaner we hired and of course he doesn't see it because he is blind. The care agency said he would be assesses before they finished the rehab care but now it seems it has all just finished suddenly. We wonder if he has refused any more help and told them he is not taking the diabetic tablets anymore which is why it has all stopped so suddenly. I think Hubby should get him assessed but he says there is nothing he can do. Am I being mean