at home until she was taken in on sunday.
The help my husband and I need are regards Money and Court of Protection....My husband is her Court of Protection deputy as well as her eldest son.
Briefly I will try to explain...Up until sunday my brother in Law has been living at home with his mother and was classed as her carer. He didnt go home to care for her but was already living at home.
My husband was given Court of Protection and has been in charge of her money. Every month he was been paying half of all the household bills..plus mothers own items and personal things in full..She has been getting attendence allowance which helped pay plus her pension...She is 90.
Now what we need help with is ..
We have phoned about her attendence allowence and they have told us we will still get it for a month. then it will be stopped.
Then mum will only get her pension....
Now this has all happened will the Court of Protection expect the money to be stopped to brother in law regards Household Bills?
I say it has to stop now as she is not living there anymore.? Am I correct.?
My sister in law seems to think we should carry on paying him so he can stay in the house as with out his mothers money he couldnt cope.
Really would like some help as we are coming out as monsters to them both for taking the money away?
Sorry this is so long. many thanks
The help my husband and I need are regards Money and Court of Protection....My husband is her Court of Protection deputy as well as her eldest son.
Briefly I will try to explain...Up until sunday my brother in Law has been living at home with his mother and was classed as her carer. He didnt go home to care for her but was already living at home.
My husband was given Court of Protection and has been in charge of her money. Every month he was been paying half of all the household bills..plus mothers own items and personal things in full..She has been getting attendence allowance which helped pay plus her pension...She is 90.
Now what we need help with is ..
We have phoned about her attendence allowence and they have told us we will still get it for a month. then it will be stopped.
Then mum will only get her pension....
Now this has all happened will the Court of Protection expect the money to be stopped to brother in law regards Household Bills?
I say it has to stop now as she is not living there anymore.? Am I correct.?
My sister in law seems to think we should carry on paying him so he can stay in the house as with out his mothers money he couldnt cope.
Really would like some help as we are coming out as monsters to them both for taking the money away?
Sorry this is so long. many thanks