We have had 5 funerals since Christmas, family and friends, today hubby's cousin has died in CH she had AD he is so upset, we do visit her every week as he is so close to her, should we go to yet another funeral, l am feeling so stressed, tomorrow he will forget about today, he is so confused, her husband has just been diagnosed with AD so feel we should go to support him, just need a big hug ♡♡♡
Another death
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Hi pamann
I am sorry about your situation.
Mid 2003 to 2004 was a bad time for our wider family.
My mother died and we had 14 other deaths.
I suppose this will happen at some point as the wider family consists of over 250 people.
William
I'm so sorry Pamann. So much sadness in such a small space of time.
Love and hugs to you
Lyn T XX
Love and hugs to you
Lyn T XX
So sorry to hear of yet another death Pamann - so many Funerals already this year and now one more. Can you decide nearer the day whether to go or not? Thinking of you both.
I am so sorry for your losses.
I read somewhere that a contented strategy is to offer no new news and only good, positive communication.
I took my Dad to a funeral recently of a chap he had known for years. While he behaved appropriately, he did ask me several times who had died and has not mentioned it since. As such, I think I may adopt this strategy as I think life will be less stressful.
Take care x
I read somewhere that a contented strategy is to offer no new news and only good, positive communication.
I took my Dad to a funeral recently of a chap he had known for years. While he behaved appropriately, he did ask me several times who had died and has not mentioned it since. As such, I think I may adopt this strategy as I think life will be less stressful.
Take care x
Oh what a dreadful situation for you. Is there any way that someone could be with your hubby, whilst you go to the cousin's funeral on your own? As you've said that tomorrow your husband won't remember today, you'll know in your heart that you're representing both of you.
And you say that the cousin's husband has also been diagnosed with AD? Oh sweetie, I'm sending you the biggest hug I can find. xxxx
And you say that the cousin's husband has also been diagnosed with AD? Oh sweetie, I'm sending you the biggest hug I can find. xxxx
Oh I'm so sorry to hear this, pamann. So much in such a short space of time, no wonder you are reeling. Much love, support and strength to you both xx
The January Lads will make sure that this February Lass has a front row seat, and will watch over her, with the greatest courtesy and care. xxx
Of course all deaths are sad Pamann-but 22 yrs old-that is tragic.
I'm so sorry
Lyn T XX
I lost my brother when he was 17 and my wife lost her sister when she was 16.
I met my wife when we were 11. We were not married at the time of the deaths but I think it was generally expected to happen so it was really the same family for practical purposes.
William