My husband is being assessed and will have to move to another care home as the current one says they can't meet his nursing needs. He can feed himself but other than that can do nothing, walk, shave, wash, dress himself and is doubly incontinent. It takes two carers to move him anywhere and he is Also prone to aggression when he is asked to do anything, I.e. Move his legs to help get him into and out of wheelchair. Is it at this point when he does not have to pay for his own care? For the first time today he was very aggressive with me, calling me awful names which ws quite upsetting.