Hi, my Grandad has dementia, he has declined in the recent years but has never been formally diagnosed as he and my Grandmother have always been in denial. They live quite far away from the rest of us and have muddled through as best as they could with us visiting at least weekly. This morning my Grandad was found with my Nan who had been dead at least a couple of days. He has gone very downhill mentally and as we all live far away and not in a position to have him live with us we have no idea what to do. He is resistant to leaving the house even today but I cannot stay him with him permanently - I'm not unloving but a single working mum. Any advice please as in how to get him the help he needs