Hi Early Riser, thank you for your comment. I am new to this forum and thanks for comment reference where to post. I am a step relative for my lovely 'Dad' I am applying for deputyship as dad will not be returning home. I have managed to secure CHC but he will be reviewed in three months, another reason to apply. Dad lived very independently and enjoyed himself until he recently became ill, this has been the worst experience of my life. Police called taken to hospital and then admitted to an EMI home, after searching round for suitable home, most would not take due to aggressive behaviour. Anyway found a fantastic home with lovely carers who take his aggressive outbursts in their stride. Everything checked, brain scan, infection nothing?? So fast forward to deputyship, he does have relatives and after discussion they agree to me applying to be a deputy. Have since been getting conflicting advice re COP. Dad was very private and anything financial he did himself. However he had informed me where everything was in case anything happened to him and trusted me to keep this confidential. So question really is do you fill in respondents or just notify relatives. Solicitor says respondents? Feel uncomfortable with this, as relatives will have to to served with all his financial information and will?? Dad would go spare if he knew. Am I missing something here I though to notify?? Have spoken to COP, obviously they can not say either way, but did say most just notify. Solicitor says it looks suspicious?? Not really bothered about that everything is as he left it. Sorry for long ramble, just wanted to know what is the correct thing to do.