so many of you answered and i really appreciated everything about my son marrying the wrong lady. i cant explain it, but i had an intuition and i followed it thru. well---what can i say! i find out things on the computer. we talk all the time. whats jhappening to my precious boy? why is he allowing this girl to do this? ifn my mom were here , id run to the phone. i just have my husband and hes also in a quandry.i ask questions and i get lies.to find out things on a computer about your own child! im hurt, but im very angry too. this isnt him. how can he allow this?i was ready to blast him, but then i held back. let him go thru with it. hell see life finally for what it is., and its not easy.i will not send a gift for lies. this is killing me--my beautiful boy with a girl like this! my mom always said im smart. i can do anything, but can i do this? can i handle this one alone? my mom was so wise. oh how i need her wisdom now. my dad was wise too. they had faith in me, but do i have faith in me? i sure hope i get this one right because its his life. hes such a good boy.this girl is a manipulator. im pretty good with the computer and if its there ill find it.but why find things like this on a computer? we talk all the time and she is manipulating him. i know his friends. they all call me MOM. they knew my mom too. we were like 1 happy family till this girl came in the picture.she doesnt fit in with his friends, but i cant say a word. so i think--how i need my mom for this one! i think this one will finally test me to see if i truly am like my mom said--that i can handle anything.she was a good teacher. ill say that for her. i just hope im up to this one.