Mum had VD but has had a stroke and brain hermorage. Shes on nasal feeding and can only move her left arm and right arm minutely. Unable to swallow liquids. I was warned that she may not make it but on the other hand they say she could go back to her house ????????? with carers 3-4 times a day for 30 mins slots at the best. Hang on I thought, they showed me the brain scam omg a huge amount of it has gone, at the best she would be in a nursing home.
Mum owns her flat, she had a 7000.00 interest only mortgage (I went ballastic years ago when she told me) and this would have to paid back to the bank at the point of sale. She is also in the middle of a bank loan of 5000.00(home improvements) of around 160.00 month.
if she goes in a nursing home and we are finding it hard selling the flat who will pay care home home fees? When its sold and the income decreases to the point theres nothing left who will pay. Ive heard of top fees from a 3rd party.....any one had issues with top fees and how did you handle it? Did you refuse if they asked you?