Another sore?

[Nanak]

Just off to see Mum after her weekend away. She didn't eat or drink much over the weekend apparently I spoke to him this morning and she is bleeding around her bottom area. He isn't sure if it is a new sore or an old one reopening. .
Poor Mum is probably shattered
Nanak
missing what has gone and scared of what is to come

[Grannie G]

Oh dear! It will probably take your mum a while to recover from the weekend Nanak. I hope she is not too sore. xx

[jan.s]

Oh, your poor mum. How hard it must be to watch these things. Just wanted to say that i'm thinking of you.

Jan xx

[turbo]

Hello Nanak, your poor mum. I hope you are able to be there when the district nurse arrives.


turbo

[creativesarah]

Bless you Nanak
thinking of you
Sarah

[Onlyme]

I was thinking about your Mum over the weekend and hoping that its wasn't this one that she was going away. It must have been unbelieveable to sit on a coach in this heat without drinking much. Your poor Mum. I hope that the DN managed to sort her out again.

Loads of hugs.

[Nanak]

Yes I managed to get there before the District Nurse arrived. She checked the sore and it is the same one as before but she isn't too worried about it. They have it under control.
SF said they had been away and she said 'you took D*****?!'. She was horrified. When he took Mum to the toilet she said to me 'we can advise but there is nothing we can do'.
Poor Mum is shattered but to be honest doesn't look any worse than when I saw her on Friday.
I sat with her all afternoon, she was in bed and just slept. SF is shattered too, he looks awful. Just don't know how much longer he can go on like this without something giving...
Nanak
missing what has gone and scared of what is to come

[Onlyme]

How is your SF physically? It sounds as if he is on the brink of sometime major - like a heart attack or stroke.

I know it is the last thing on your mind but do you have a plan if he drops down tomorrow?

[Nanak]

Its been a thought that is -sort of - unspoken between my siblings and I. At one time or another we have said 'what on earth would we do if something happened to SF'.
Absolutely no idea what we could do as we know nothing of Mums affairs, wishes, or anything. No idea which bank she is with even . He did mention a few years ago that he is executor of Mums will and his son is executor of Mums will if anything happens to him but we have no idea how to contact his son (or in fact which son it is, he has two!).
We would have to wing it as the saying goes . What we do know for a fact is that nothing will be anything to do with us .
Nanak
missing what has gone and scared of what is to come