Hi everyone, worried about my FIL, called to check that my MIL ok, noticed that my FIL had some scratches and bruising on his arm. I asked him what had happend and he told me that my MIL had gone for him, i ask him to explain, he said that he was going to give her her medication and she became agitated with him and gone to bite him, as she had no teeth him he pulled his arm out of way only for her to grab at him and sank her nails into him. i have noticed in the past my MIL can be quite aggressive towards my FIL going for his face or trying to hit him with her walking stick. he has made a comment that one of these days she will clobber him across the head with her stick so he has to be very aware of where she is at all times. while there my fil asked me to make an appt with her gp to see if they will increase her diazapam to 3x daily as her moods are becoming more frequent and he is finding it harder to cope with her.. at night she takes 20mg of tamazepam but this does not help her sleep so my FIL is not getting any rest. she is now incontinent x2 and has no consept of using the toilet at all so my FIL has to see to her needs. have tried to persuaid him to have some help come in but he keeps saying no..
what am i to do!!!