I recently posted on here about the issues I have with my Mum and the fact we haven't seen each other or spoken for nearly a year, despite me trying to build a bridge.
My big brother who lives in NY phoned me yesterday to advise that he'd just gotten off the phone with Mum and she'd told him that I sneaked into her house and wiped the hard drive of her PC and stolen a load of her paperwork. This is obviously untrue.
My big bro says that I'm all she ever thinks and talks about, that I'm plotting with other members of the family and poisoning them against her. Normally he just lets her rant but this time he couldn't ignore what she was saying as it was so outlandish and tried to talk some sense into her, unsuccessfully.
I'm just at the end of my tether with her and her paranod delusions. I stay out of her life and she still goes on and on about the 'things' I'm trying to do to her, particularly, stealing her house and putting her in a home. I'm ashamed to say that sometimes I feel like I hate her for what she's become and the nastiness that comes out of her mouth.
She's always been the kind of woman who's needed to have an ongoing 'fight' with someone, just never thought it'd be me.
I know that there's nothing that anyone can really do but this forum gives me a place to vent my anger and frustration with others that understand.
Thanks for listening.