We found out about my mum a little over a year ago. It has not been easy me my sister and brother have all fallen out with each other at 1 time or another. Me and my sister have just started talking again after a year of no contact with each. But now i do not speak to my brother all he thinks about is money. He has even accused my sister of stealing money off my mum. At first i did believe him but now i have spoke to my sister i know the truth. My sister is my mums full time carer and i know that she would not do that to my mum.
Just recently my mum had her drivers license took away from her as she was becoming a danger to herself and other road users. I thought that my mum would take it hard but she seems o.k. about it all and knows it is for the best.
I do feel guilty though because i have not been to see my mum i just find it hard and it would cost 90 pound to get there and that is money we have not got. My sister did say that when they get bk off there holiday they will bring mum for a day trip so i can look forward to that. I am not going to lie i have buried my head in the sand in the last year thinking if i do not see my mum every thing is o.k. so now i have to pull myself together and start helping my sister out more when i can.
I do not tell my sister this but i am grateful for every thing she has done and is still doing for my mum.
We all need to pull together now for mums sake not our own.
Sorry if i have gone on a bit. I feel better for getting that out i try not to talk to anyone about my mum because when i have they either laugh or make snide jokes about alzheimer's and it just upsets me