Bear in mind that we both (hubby & I) look after dad 24/7 with dementia, this disturbs me...Yesterday hubby told me there was a ham pestle in the fridge he had bought ready to make pea soup, but I looked today and it was not there. Today, I asked him to get the pestle out of the fridge... he couldn't find it.. so confusion, as I had told him, before, it's not there..there have been other incidents of of us having raging arguments about things that he has done or I have done.. I'm so worried that now either I have the start of dementia or he has.. but the incident of the missing pestle could indicate that it's not me.. I hope so, but in the event that it's hubby, I think I will run away, I couldn't take on another person with dementia to care for.. it's far too hard for a second stint.
Strange post I know... head in hands.. such a worry.