I am undecided as to the best place to either scatter my parents ashes or to have them buried in a local cemetery. My parents both wanted to be cremated because they didn't believe in the waste of land for burial. However I would like a place that I could go to on birthdays etc to lay down flowers and feel close to them and so burying their ashes is an option I am drawn to even though this is not quite what they wanted. Someone said that my parents would have wanted me to do something that I was happy with and would give me comfort and burying their ashes would do this. There is no joint place that I can scatter their ashes where I could practically return to eg their garden as the house is being sold and I couldn't go back there when other people own the house. Any thoughts great appreciated.