While Mum has carers coming in 4 times per day to see that she gets her tablets, is fed and washed I am left to sort out everything else. I have not worked a proper week this year as every week there is an appointment she needs to go to. Dentist, Doctor, hospital etc. I have used up alot of annual leave to do this. I can't continue doing it though as it would mean that even I could arrange respite care I would have no leave left to be able to take a holiday. Does anyone know if there is anywhere I can turn to that would provide mum with someone to take her to routine appointments. I'm at breaking point as on top of all the appointments I do the cleaning, paying the bills, laundry and anything else that needs doing. Mum tells me she has no milk when the carton in almost empty. Tonight it might be 3/4 full so I think she is ok for milk but then she may decide to drink alot and within a few hours there is none left.