My Father behaves normally most of the time, but often makes wild accusations and gets paranoid about things that he believes have gone missing. He has upset many members of the family by accusing them of bizarre acts, threatening police action, etc.
We are very concerned as he is caring for his Wife who has been invalided for many years, and he frequently upsets her.
He won't admit that he has a problem, and instead blames it on everyone else. We have asked the Doctor to assess him but he says he cannot discuss his condition with us unless my Father gives his permission - which he has declined.
How can we get help for him if he won't admit his problems and won't even discuss it with us?