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I agree that the aggression might be because they are being rushed,and just told what to do. It is their last stand at independence.

I never hurry my husband and always say please and then say...

Howlong you ask. Well the answer is as long as a piece of string!!!!

My husband flits between 5 6 7 , comes and goes.

Stages only give anindication nothing is written in stone, so there are...

Not enough trust me.

As harsh ass it will sund to you. my advice is to leave the decision about caring to your father.

If he truly cannot continue to care for her then home is the best place...

Your words will actually help many members who have similar thoughts but wouldn't dare type them on here.

I live with my husband, and he drives me to the brink of despair many times. I too said...

Grief is not often a visitor in my house. I write these words as I am in a very good place emotionally at the moment.

Much of this is due to my 2 week break from Gordon when he had respite for...

This is what was happening in my parents house many years ago.

My father actually once hit her because she put a tin of peas into a frying [pan, without opening it and left the gas up high, then...

I agree with all other posters, you should do what you consider is the best for you and your husband. You do nothave to consider the stepchildren at all.

Jeannette

yes I do realise that, just wanted to give them time to get their thinking caps on!!!:)

What are you going to do in autumn and winter, do you hope she will go to bed at 3.30.p.m. ???

Just a thought

I think there is possibily a connection between age and sadness about death.

I did feel heartbreaking sadness whenmy daughter and grand daughter died two weeks after my 70th birthday. But here I...

Made me smile too and I am a Christian. Jeannette

this topic has been around tp for ages. It keeps raising its head.

I shall just say no comment and keep my own opinion

Jeannette

you mention that you have a child, you have to think very carefully about the impact on him/her.

It is a wonderful idea, but the reality will be much harder than the idealism.

Jeannette

I have many thoughts but they have all been expressed by the others really BE.

Apart from this one. I had total emotional meltdown about a month ago, and Gordon went into 2 weeks respite for...

Myhusband is in bed for about 14 /15 hours a day I just let him get up when he is ready to, and then to go to bed when he wants to

I feel it is about the only thing he has any control over now
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The other day y husband tried to shave himself with the remote. He told me it needed charging!!.

He often goes to put his pyjamas on again in themorning instead of day clothes. Yes it is...

you are crying because of the whole situation, yourself, your Mum, your children, , the loss of your future with her.

I am not sure you should " jack in " your job and move back to UK unless that...

I too struggled writing my version of war and peace about my husband before respite.

I have to imagine starting off in the morning and covering everything.

Then I read it back and realise I...

I think the annoyance I feel against my husband is because I absolutely hate how he is now, and want him back.

Perhaps there is an element of that with you, you hate what your mother has become...

I feel the ch are adding to your pain. Why do they ring you and tell you?

I had a similar situation and yet dissimilar at the same time.

My husband rarely knows me as his wife and yet he...

Just to say I agree with your decision. I have already made that for my husband. Only treatment will be for pain relief. Love jeannette

I think you have to tell a SS worker you will not be responsible for the medication. Telling the warfarin clinic is not the right way to go. This is just my opinion though as I get on very well with...

Nick do not bank on getting answers. My daughter and grand daughter drowned, and the inquest took place 8 months later. There were no real answers as to why or how.

However it is obvious that...

This was happening to me all the time too. Used to find it tucked tightly in to the ankle part of his long johns!!!!

Now I have given in and instead of pads and fixation pants which I got on NHS...

any pockets on your Mum's clothes too??????

Thankfully my phone is always on, so when I lose it I do just ring it. It is quite funny wandering round the house trying to hear it as I am a bit deaf...