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  1. Thread: Next stage

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    I have hesitated posting this bemused,but being a...

    I have hesitated posting this bemused,but being a carer can cause total isolation,friends disappear,your whole life is focussed on the person you love and care for.
    Nothing at all like your...
  2. Thread: Next stage

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    I am glad the hoist is going bemused,a reminder...

    I am glad the hoist is going bemused,a reminder you could do without.

    You are so hard on yourself,you are grieving for your husband,however you feel,whatever you don't want to do is all normal....
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    My husband is a very intelligent,hard working...

    My husband is a very intelligent,hard working man,has had great success's throughout his working life,nothing phases him,he is rarely stressed,but,he suffers from dyslexia. I have always been good at...
  4. Thread: Agitated today

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    I'm so sorry you're not being supported...

    I'm so sorry you're not being supported Sue,thanks for caring about me when you have so much to cope with yourself. Sending love and big hugs.xxxxx
  5. Thread: Worthless

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    My heart goes out to you,i understand your...

    My heart goes out to you,i understand your feelings.My situation...different to yours,but i have been battling the NHS for many years,my dad's poor treatment and neglect,my mum's abuse by a...
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    Wild rabbits are beautiful creatures,we see a lot...

    Wild rabbits are beautiful creatures,we see a lot here. I find it offensive that anyone would want to kill them,how would anyone feel if their pets were hunted. It is no different.
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    I remember when I complained to the CQC,they told...

    I remember when I complained to the CQC,they told me fans could not be used. If I left a dog in a car that overheated I would be prosecuted!
    It's about using common sense,sadly I never saw a carer...
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    When my mum was alive,I visited her at her care...

    When my mum was alive,I visited her at her care home on a hot sunny day,it was 30 degrees. When I arrived she had been unwell so they had left mum in bed. Mum was in an attic room,windows shut,15 tog...
  9. Thread: Next stage

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    Something else you could well do without bemused....

    Something else you could well do without bemused. I worked for a charity and had health and safety training,no safety equipment could be 're used',whether it was for the home,elderly or car seat's...
  10. Thread: Next stage

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    Sending big hugs,and a stroke for Jess.xx

    Sending big hugs,and a stroke for Jess.xx
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    I am another one thinking of you too dear Loo. A...

    I am another one thinking of you too dear Loo. A very sad day for you and your family tomorrow. Sending love as always.xx
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    My mum decided to put a knife and fork along with...

    My mum decided to put a knife and fork along with a microwave meal in her microwave,sadly we had to remove it.Poor mum never understood the dangers in her own home,which was one of the reasons she...
  13. Thread: Next stage

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    Thinking of you.xx

    Thinking of you.xx
  14. Thread: Next stage

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    So sad for you bemused,you are always in my...

    So sad for you bemused,you are always in my thoughts. I hope the meeting with the celebrant goes as well as it can,another huge hurdle for you. Sending comforting hugs.xx
  15. Thread: Next stage

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    I have been thinking of you,and relieved your...

    I have been thinking of you,and relieved your visit to Ron was okay,and you can find the strength to say your final goodbye next week. You must feel so drained,and you have the worry of your family...
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    I worked as a Home help,for years it was through...

    I worked as a Home help,for years it was through Age UK,but I know they don't run the scheme in many areas now. My last job was through an ad in a shop window. The lady interviewed a few people and...
  17. Thread: Next stage

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    Thinking of you this morning bemused. A difficult...

    Thinking of you this morning bemused. A difficult day ahead for you,keep strong my lovely.xxx
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    Sending love dear Loo.x

    Sending love dear Loo.x
  19. Thread: Next stage

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    I think it is good to be open and talk about our...

    I think it is good to be open and talk about our feelings,death is often seen as taboo,I never quite understand why. Mum would never talk about death,I never knew what her wishes were,so I had to do...
  20. Thread: Next stage

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    I put a letter,photos and mums teddy in her...

    I put a letter,photos and mums teddy in her coffin,it did help me. The photos were her favourites and I felt they belonged with her. Whatever brought any comfort was right for me. Sending hugs.x
  21. Thread: Next stage

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    That's why I went to see my mum too,there were...

    That's why I went to see my mum too,there were things I hadn't said to her in her final days. I remember thinking she would be alone and frightened and I needed to reassure her,some people thought it...
  22. Thread: Next stage

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    I've been talking to a neighbour that recently...

    I've been talking to a neighbour that recently lost her husband,she said she feels as though she has been cut in half,a description that made sense for me to help her in her grief. If she wants to...
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    Thinking of you today dear Loo.x

    Thinking of you today dear Loo.x
  24. Thread: Next stage

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    Bless you bemused,I remember clearing my dad's...

    Bless you bemused,I remember clearing my dad's medical equipment from the family home,I wanted it gone,but it was the finality of it. I had to close his bedroom door because I would find myself drawn...
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    We will always be here for you Loo. I will never...

    We will always be here for you Loo. I will never forget your compassion for me over the years on this forum,it means more than you know. Sending love.x
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