Izzy

"Duly edited. My post crossed with Sue's. My reference was to the bidet/toielt seat which would be useful for my mother." - lol xoxox

Thinking of you Izzy & hoping for more rest for you x

Izzy - I think you may want to edit the toilet paper post - or have I misunderstood what is so fantastic - did the post go on the wrong thread??
x Sue

Hi Izzy - yes I think I'm being nicer too - but am fighting getting people in for tasks - gardening help we have succumbed to - but housework, while stealing his research time - doe keep him in touch and communicating (feebly) - I fear a loss of ability & communication when a cleaner starts - ironing - iron has not been out for maybe a year or more - have learned ways of drying without crease & I do a very rude crease test before buying anything new.....(I hang things from the lintels on coat hangers straight from machine.....= avoids ironing). Lovely, really lovely to hear from you, S xox

Hello again Izzy - people have been so kind about my absence & part of me does not want to be here - it is real what we are going through & yet at best you can think there is nothing wrong. Everything husband does takes longer than it used to - so he thinks he is doing more - but he is doing less. Yes - we need a cleaner too .....next step. But I have made enormous progress in making our lives more bearable this year - as I'm sure you have too. Hoping for a calm w/e with few flash points heh?? P.s. DIY is variable - can be amazing e.g. shelves or very bodged - unlike old perfect self......

Oh Izzy - is it really so that you understand these lodger characteristics too, that has really made me very sad. But pleased we share the same experience xoxo

P.S.: Have just looked at your holiday photos. Lovely! Love, Nan XXX

Thank you for your message, Izzy. The Carer's Assessment has been brought forward to next Tuesday (instead of "a month's time") and just knowing that respite is in the pipeline makes me feel better already. Love, Nan XXX

We had a great time thanks Lorraine. Have just posted a pic on the slimming thread. Will add to my albums when I get home. Izzy x

Thanks Izzy,
How did your holiday go, I hope you had a good time,
Love
Lorraine

Thanks Izzy,
Me and Bri had quite a few holidays while he was still able to enjoy them, February to Florida was the last one and Brian hated it, didnt understand what was happening etc. hard to believe that is only 7 months ago. Hope you have a great time, I am going to try and relax for a week!!
Love
Lorraine