I know it is the right thing to do but as I am writing this I feel such a failure, I have left it to everyone else, my uncle to take him there my sister to console my mother while I have just been a mess. I feel I have left my father down by not being with him he has always been there for me and I couldn't be there. I have spent time looking for the care home making sure it was ok, but still never thought it would happen. He had to go because of having to safeguard the neighbours children he was