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- my mother was diagnosed 12 month s ago and i thought i could cope on my own but now know i cant my mum also has motor neurones so she cant use her arms and needs a wheelchair to get around
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Weekend alone
This is the first weekend I have spent alone apart from Bertie the dog and trixie the cat my brothers have both phoned me each day
I have felt really lost loads of time but nothing to do friends I had have got there own life you can only say no so many times before they stop asking poor old Bertie has walked miles
I would have loved a few hours break when I had mum but now I'm lost without her we did everything together for over 5years 24/7
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Bye mum
by larivy on 03-12-2011 at 08:22 PM
Mum I miss you so much your smile and cheeky look in your eye I keep hearing you call me and can see your smile
I know you would have hated being as you were those last few days
And was so pleased you decided not to wake but instead start your journey to be with dad I can just imagine the welcome dad gave you and I know one day you will both be waiting for me you were the best parents anyone could have and you raised us to be full of love for each other and at times like this it shows
Important decisions made
by larivy on 14-10-2011 at 11:00 PM
Cpn is coming Monday with legal man to fill forms in for me to be mums legal guardian once this is done the community matron is going to fill the fotrm in for where mum wants to be till the end mum wants and we as a family want mum to stay at home
Me and my brothers went out today and discussed whatt we want for mum we have decided against a peg as we feel the operation may be to much for mum as her skin is like tissue paper also she could well be prone to infections I have worked with
Advent full week
What a week got told off from physio but shoulder seems to be doing well compared with last time
Mums has been really confused these past few weeks and has been sleeping a lot during the day I can't push the wheelchair and I'm not allowed to drive to thursday
Took mum to her hospital appointment and she is deteriorating in her breathing and her muscle wasting so although I new deep down was hard to except one good thing that came out was I now have control over her oxygen so
so hard
by larivy on 28-01-2011 at 10:45 PM
this week has been so hard after such a great break not sure if thats why im feeling it more a taste of what im missing
mum is not right she is asleep most of the time people keep saying well she is 85yrs and she has a good life as though shes not important now even my brother has said it
im not going to give up on her no matter what any body said i am scared though im frightened i will walk into her bedroom and wont be able to wake her up i do realise the day might come when this