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I teared up reading and replying to posts on TP, It is still not hitting home that this could be happening to my Dad. I know there is no cure, no miracles. You just can't help hoping this will all go away, I try to brush it aside but it's still there like it is a dream. I am rollercoastered from one thought to another. I'm in a scarey place just now until the results are in and when the reality of it all kicks in. I will cope with it, i am strong, and i will give my Mum the support she needs and
Today felt a tug of my heart strings and a little tear to discover a bit more of mum has gone. I found underneath the clean underwear in her draw several items meant for the wash. She has always washed her own underwear daily in her bathroom. Now this simple task seems not to be possible. Bless her...I do love her but it is so sad. I take comfort in the fact that she is blissfully unware and seems happy today.
Went to visit my Mum and Dad today. Mum still in bed trying to get better for their impending prepaid break.
Dad always in good spirits making throw away comments and joking them away. It's ok, i understand what he means when he doesn't use the right words or veer of conversations, i go with the flo.
Mum is ready to have just an hour out for lunch as the Hotel/restaurant is only 3mins away. Had a lovely day with them.
Dad did mention very quietly relating to the scan and doesn't
Good news i fear! My Dad has his appointment for his Scan through for next week. So don't know what the other apointment for March is for? No doubt we will find out, maybe it's a follow on to the Scan?
Dad had got his apointment through for April. I think it's for the scan. Dad had the memory test and according to Mum he didn't do too well. Dad wants me to go to the centre as he thinks it's a wonderful place and the staff there are so wonderful, and he thinks i would find it wonderful (my Dads new word). I am glad Dad likes this place as i think sometime in the future this is where he will go for respite.