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  1. 8 months on

    Quote Originally Posted by grobertson62 View Post
    I can't believe where the time has gone but it's been 8 months since we lost dad.
    I always thought I would go to pieces when's he man who was so much a part of my life died.
    Strangely enough though that hasn't happened. Grief hasn't overwhelmed me. I have cried little, but feel a relief that this journey for dad is over.
    I found it difficult to go back to the nursing home and it took a few months for me to get over that hurdle but I did it. The staff were a massive part of
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  2. highs and lows

    Quote Originally Posted by grobertson62 View Post
    Hi guys
    Its hard to know where the time has gone since we lost our loved ones.
    I finally went back to dads nursing home last week. It was so hard to walk through the doors.
    Everything has changed yet remains the same there. If you know what i mean.
    Still havent been to the cemetary. Fear is keeping me away.
    December 3rd came and went. The 6 month milestone. A great achievement
    It still is so vivid in my mind that last weekend. I dont want to let it go. So
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  3. you have to laugh or youd cry

    Quote Originally Posted by grobertson62 View Post
    So in the midst of this maelstrom of emotion currently washing over me there comes a letter.
    The Bank... The one i have complained about send dad a letter...they are looking forward to getting him back to telephone banking.
    That will be a neat trick..however if they manage it i would like to speak to dad too.
    Honestly what will it take to get them to realise my lovely dad is no longer here?
    Next i get a letter from DWP saying we hope you havent distributed dads estate
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  4. no guilt but lots of sorrow

    Quote Originally Posted by grobertson62 View Post
    The tears flow easily at the moment
    Think it may have some thing to do with sorting dads estate out
    Write to the leaseholder
    Contact solicitor for transfer of title
    Sort out a headstone
    Fix up the property
    And so it goes on......
    So here i am grieving more than 3 months ago. It all seem seems so final some how.the end...
    I dont have the guilt now. You know what if? I decided not to go there.
    So here i am struggling...fortunatel work
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  5. Grant of probate not as bad as I thought

    Quote Originally Posted by grobertson62 View Post
    So today I went to the branch where I registered dads death
    Last time we went in. The girl was so rude I put in a formal complaint and won
    This time I saw the branch manager, an hour later it was all done and dusted
    So now its 3 months today since dad died and its been an emotional day.
    Just been sat writing cheques for dads bequests
    The tears are flowing again think there's likely to be a flood in Sheffield at this rate
    Gill
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